My Granddad Wise died when my mom was a teenager and I was never
able to meet him. My Nana didn’t talk a lot about his ancestors and when she
died, I had no idea where to begin. I knew three things about my Granddad’s
family:
- They were from the South, namely South Carolina, Georgia and Louisiana.
- Nana converted to the Catholic religion when she married Granddad.
- We were somehow related to Jimmy Carter’s wife.
As I looked through Nana’s notes, I saw that she wrote down
Grandad’s relatives. The Wise side was very well documented, but the Clohecy
side was not. Nana said that her mother in law was Corinne Clohecy and her
parents were Mark Andrew Clohecy from New York and Emma de la Vergne from New
Orleans. Clohecy is an Irish name and de
la Vergne sounded French.
My normal searches turned up nothing. Ancestry and Family
Search had nothing on an Emma de la Vergne. A collegue pointed me to
Findagrave.com and I was able to find their graves in Atlanta, Georgia. The
name on the grave was not de la Vergne, it was Lawrence, Emma Bella Lawrence!
Imagine my surprise.
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Marriage License and Date-1876 |
I was thrilled! Now I knew her name and her birth date, it
should be easy to find her parents!!! WRONG. The dates began to be inconstant. Emma
was born in 1865, but her marriage certificate is dated November 28, 1876. That
would have made her 11 or 12. She did not have children
until 1883. She had 4 daughters. Two remained unmarried, one died in 1929 and Corinne, my Great Great Grandmother outlived everyone by living until 1972. Emma died on March 6, 1934. Census records have different birth years for both Emma and Mark.
One year it said she was born in 1860 and another stated 1855.
When I found Emma’s Death
Certificate, the math added up that she was born in 1865. However, it did not
include the name of her mother or her mother’s birthplace. The one piece of
evidence it included was the name of her Father- John Lawrence. Do you know how
many John Lawrence’s were in Louisiana at the end of the Civil War? Hundreds.
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Death Certificate |
I am not sure what to do next. I wish
I could find Emma’s Mom. Perhaps one day there will be more evidence to paint a
clearer picture.