Sunday, October 23, 2016

Sarah Laverna Isom- My Great Great Grandmother


 "At the early age of thirty-nine my father traveled through the portals of death Dec. 6, 1885. Only six weeks had passed since he and mother buried their little daughter Josephine. He was up and dressed every day till the day he died. That evening as Mary and Kate bid him, -- “Good night God bless you” (before going to stay the night at Grandma and Grandpa Parkers’, who were getting old and needed company) Saying, “I hope you’ll be better in the morning.” He said, “I shall. Good night God bless you.” Those were the last words he ever uttered. Immediately after the childrens [sic] arrival at grandpa’s, one of the young men sleeping at our house while my father was sick came with the word my father had died. Two weeks from that sad night, Dec. 21, 1885 I was born." So begins the story of Sarah LaVerna Isom.
Baby LaVerna
Sarah LaVerna was called LaVerna. One relative said that because she was the youngest and her father had just died, that her mother Alice never taught her the "essential" things like cooking.

When LaVerna was eight years old her mother took the five younger members of her family to Provo to the Brigham Young Academy. The three years spent at Provo were some of the happiest of her childhood. She completed the second to sixth grades inclusive while attending the Academy. The two following years she attended school at home, taking all the highest lessons given in school as it was ungraded.

 After this, her mother sent her to the Branch Normal School of the University of Utah at Cedar City, Utah. Here she remained three years, graduating in May 1903. The next winter, with her mother and an older sister, she went to Salt Lake City where she entered the University of Utah. She graduated from the University of Utah Normal Teachers' Training School, June 5, 1904. Graduation exercises were held in the old Salt Lake Theatre and her diploma was awarded her on the stage of this historical old building. LaVerna taught grade school in Cedar City in 1904 and 1905. She was offered the same position the next year, but accepted a position at Moccasin, Arizona at a higher salary.

LaVerna and her students
Now, Moccasin Arizona is about 27 miles south of Kanab, Utah and there is not much there. She went to teach at a ranch. While she was teaching, she met the older brother of some of her students. His name was Fred C. Heaton and they fell in love, got married and had 8 children. They remained in Moccasin until eventually moving to Kanab. Their oldest child is my Great Grandmother, Edna. Her wish was that all of her children graduate college- and all but one did. (The one decided after a year that he was happier on the ranch and did well for himself.)
Drawing by LaVerna

One daughter wrote, "Mama worked very hard all her years on the ranch. She always was completely dressed before leaving her bedroom in the morning. She would wear a starched cotton full apron over a cotton house dress, always hose and laced shoes. She would clean her teeth, brush, comb and braid her hair, and drink a glass of warm water (to wash out her alimentary canal) before beginning to cook breakfast and take care of the morning work. During the day there was cooking which she never enjoyed. She had to manage three meals a day cooking on a wood-burning stove, which was unpredictable, and also without refrigeration, using a water cooler or the basement for cooling. She often said if she had to cook three meals a day in heaven she wouldn't be in heaven, but that other place! Her cooking was basic - meat, potatoes, vegetables, fruit and bread. She spent long, hot hours canning hundreds of jars of fruit and vegetables in season and also beef. Mama reluctantly sewed for her family, but with six girls and two boys there was little choice. She was always wary about letting the girls use the sewing machine for fear it would get out of adjustment and she wouldn't be able to continue using it. Mama had no mechanical skills and it made her nervous whenever the children wanted to adjust any appliance. It was always fun when Mama had a quilting bee and invited her sisters-in-law to come and quilt with her. She would set up a quilt in the carport and the women came when they could and stayed as long as they could. In this way they helped one another make the needed quilts. Mama was a lovely quilter, taking small, very even stitches. I wondered about her having that skill when sewing was so difficult for her."
Family Reunion 1958
Fred and LaVerna

She loved art and was active in the church. She passed away on 20 September 1967, two years after Fred. 

I wish I could have known her. She seems like and incredible woman. 

Why I do Family History

"I will read all their dreams to the stars." Spring Awakening

"You have no control who lives, who dies, who tells your story." Lin Manuel Miranda, Hamilton

 Growing up, the only "old" relative I knew was Nana, my great grandmother. She was tiny, smelled like an old person and liked vegetables in her jello. I remember how during Sunday dinners she would sit in the rocking chair, her hands clasped together and would watch as my younger siblings played with my cousins. She didn't talk much, but she always had a smile on her face.

It's been six and a half years since my Nana passed and I find myself wondering what Nana thought as she watched us play. Did she see specks of her mother or sister in us? Did my brother remind her of her husband who she lost decades ago? Was she in awe, looking at my Mom's accomplishments and remembering her when she was a child? I wish I would have asked, but I assumed that she would be around forever. 

I knew the stories of my Dad's side. He loved to tell me about the men and women who were our ancestors. He was particularly proud of the strong women in his life. They were teachers, educators and pushed for their children to have a better life then they did. The Stapley side was that of faith, strength and stubbornness. Many of these women wrote detailed histories and as I read them, I feel like I know them and that I am granted a looking glass into their lives. But there is still so much I don't know.

I don't know where my sisters got their red hair. My Mom's brother and Mom have red hair, but I don't know if that was from Nana or Grandad's side. Looking at the pictures, I don't see much of me in my Mom's side. I inherited my my height and Scandinavian features from my Dad's Grandma Afton  (I think).  I don't have fingerprints...why? Did anyone else in the family not have fingerprints? What did I inherit from Mom's side?

And what about my personality? What are from my dad's side and what are from my mom's?  If my ancestors could see me now, would they recognize certain features in me? I see bits of personality in my siblings. One sister has my Dad's boldness, one sister has my Mom's dance talent and my Grandma's singing voice. A third sister has my Granma's love of creating and the fourth sister has Dad's work ethic with Mom's organization and dance ability. My brother has the Stapley gene of intellect and faith.

I love the why's of history. I'm a history school teacher. I love being able to understand how people lived throughout time and I wish I had a time machine to talk to those I've never met.  What made my second great grandfather Daniel Wise leave Georgia for Louisiana and how did he meet his wife Corinne? How did George C. Wise get back to Georgia after losing a leg and two brothers at the Battle of the Wilderness in Virginia? Who is Emma Chloecy's mother and why is it so hard to find that information?

As I research, network and connect; I feel that I am putting together a puzzle that shows me where I came from. I learn about my ancestors, their struggles and am so thankful for their examples and choices. I'm putting this all on a blog so that there is a record that can be viewed. These are not just names on a page, they are people who lived and breathed. They had success, they suffered and they all deserve to be remembered. I would not be who I am without my family, both immediate and extended. My siblings and I are their legacy and I hope to do them proud.

Wednesday, October 19, 2016

Julien Button Young and Catherine Monroe- 3rd Great Grandparents

When Julien Young was born on February 16, 1850, in Sugartown, Louisiana, his father, Julien was still known as Julien LeJeune. All of his 12 children took the surname Young. I'm not sure why they changed their name.  His mother was Louise Eliza.

Julien married Catherine C Monroe on December 10, 1868. They had 12 children in 25 years. He died on October 24, 1926, in Lake Charles, Louisiana, at the age of 76, and was buried in DeRidder, Louisiana. Catherine was the daughter of John Anthony Monroe and Sarah Ann Levie. She died when she was 52 in 1902.  Julien died on October 24, 1926, in Lake Charles, Louisiana, at the age of 76, and was buried in DeRidder, Louisiana.
Julien Button Young and Catherine Monroe
J.B. Young's Grave
Catherine Monroe's Grave









 
They had 11 children. My Great Grandma's (Nana's) father was their son- Luther Dutch Young.







Thursday, October 13, 2016

The Lutheran Visitor's News about the George, Rosa, Rosa and David Wise


A descendant of George Calhoun Wise sent me scanned newspaper articles of my 3rd Great Grandfather and some of his relatives. This is wonderful!!!!  I'm posting them here:

1. George C Wise Obituary:
2. His Daughter Rosa Wise's Marriage Announcement:
3.  My 4th Great Grandmother Rosa's Obituary:


4. George C's Father (My 4th Great Grandfather!!!) David Wise. Sorry that it's in two parts, it was on 2 different parts of the Newspaper.


The Children of George C. Wise and Frannie Coogle

Back Row: William and Rosa. Middle Row, Daniel, John C. and Hattie. Bottom Row: George, Francis, Walter, George C. and Mellie Mae.

My Great Great Grandfather Daniel Wise had 8 siblings and one half sibling. He was the only one to leave Georgia. The following is what I've found online (ancestry.com and findagrave). If anyone has any new information that differs, you are probably right. Please contact me and I will correct any errors.  Below are the birth and death years.


William Wise married Alma Clark and they had 4 children.  They are buried in Sumter County, Georgia.

Rosa Nettie Wise married J.W Murray and they had one child. She is buried in Plains, Georgia. 















Hattie Belle Wise married Franklin McGill and they had a son and daughter. She was buried in Sumter County, Georgia.This is them with their daughter Sarah. Sarah passed away when she was 11.

John Calhoun Wise, Sr. married   Eola Anderson. They had 7 children. 

My Great Great Grandfather, Daniel Joseph Wise married Corinne Clohecy. I've been told that he was a great baseball player. He left for Louisiana and was murdered in the 1930s. Family lore says it was the Sheriff because Daniel would not sell his land, however, his body was never found.  The pictures are of Daniel at his wedding and his wife with their oldest son.

Walter James Wise married Ruth Myrtle Crawford. These pictures are from Ancestry.com. They are of Walter and Myrtle with their grandchildren, Walter and his sister Mellie Mae and Walter and Myrtle.


 Mellie Mae married Burr Thomas Jennings and they had 3 children. She lived till she was 97 and is buried in Florida next to her husband.



George Elmore was the youngest. He married Martha Alethea "Allie" Godwin on June 4, 1916.They had 4 children and he is buried with his wife in Bronwood, Georgia. 



Sunday, October 9, 2016

Luther Dutch Young and Frances Emma Walker- My Great Great Grandparents.


My Nana loved her parents. It was hard for her to leave them in Louisiana and move to Alaska with my Grandad after World War 2. However, she and Grandad got some time off every year so they would drive (IMAGINE THAT) from Alaska to Louisiana. My mom went with them a few times.

Frances and Kate Irene
Nana's mom was Frances Emma Walker. She was born on July 19, 1887, her father, Andrew, was 36 and her mother, Caroline, was 31. She had five brothers and two sisters named Kate Irene and Olla. She was very close with her sisters and she loved to cook. 
Frances at age 18.

The Walker Sisters. Top Row: Kate Irene, Frances, Olla. 2nd Row, Carroe. Elsie and LD.
Luther D Young was born on March 29, 1882, in Sugartown, Louisiana, his father, Julian, was 32 and his mother, Catherine, was 31.  He had 10 siblings. His Mom died when he was a young man and his father remarried. Luther left home not long after and didn't have much contact with them afterwards. Luther was a railroad man and moved his family all around Louisiana. They had three children, one son and two daughters. The son was named after her husband so everyone called him "LD." He was a rail man and a newspaper editor. Her two daughters were named Elsie and Esther. Esther is my Nana. 


Luther
Frances died on March 25, 1957, in Opelousas, Louisiana, at the age of 69. My mom said that she had a type of diabetes. Luther remarried and passed away on January 2, 1972 at the age of 89 in  Lake Charles, Calcasieu, Louisiana, United States. They are both buried in Opelousas, Louisiana where my Nana and Grandad are buried.  Frances is one of the few times where the husband outlived the wife on my Mom's side.


Luther and Frances

Esther at Graduation

LD and Elsie

LD as a baby